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Women are interesting creatures....

As one I know this first hand.

We do some of the most bold,triffling,ignorant,loving,horrible,caring things ever...

You still with me?

I have an acquantince,he is an amazing young man...Articulate,funny,godfearing,has a good govt job,and knows himself...Sounds like quite a catch,huh?

Welp ladies,he is celibate....Yes...he doesnt hump any and everything with a hole....

Not catching on?


So of course we as women(not me personally)have to try to "tempt" him,with our womanly parts and pieces.....

Ladies that PATHETIC....

What is the point of want a man who has the qualications of being a good husband and father if you plan to treat him like the average no good man?

Why try to pursue physical relations with HIM?

Im often amazed how so called "ladies"carry themselves.

Im not saying lets jump back into the 50's and put on apron.

But when as I walk down the street and watch young women will their large preggo bellies,foul mouths spewing four letter words,and colored weaves that make their heads look like packs of skittles,Im amazed....
Where has the essence of being a woman gone?
Since when have debutant balls been traded in for baby showers?

.....Random rant......


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